Episode 348

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26th Aug 2025

Saying NO is Self-Care with Michele Locke

Alison interviews attorney Michele Locke, who shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery and the importance of self-care. As she pursued her dream, she became a highly regarded family law attorney and a judge, managing complex cases involving family issues, domestic violence, and child welfare.

Michele discusses the immense emotional and physical toll that her legal career exacted on her. Over the years, she inadvertently neglected her own health while focusing on building her law practice and raising her blended family. She recalls how her health deteriorated significantly starting in October 2020, leading her to realize that she was prioritizing everyone else's needs over her own. This realization became a turning point in her life, as she recognized that self-care is essential and not a selfish act.

One of the episode's key themes is the myth surrounding self-care being equated with selfishness. Throughout the conversation, Michele emphasizes that neglecting oneself can lead to dire consequences, affecting not just the individual but also their loved ones. She details the pain she endured after ignoring symptoms for years, culminating in surgeries that finally addressed her health issues. Michele shares candid insights about the common societal pressures to always present oneself as fine, despite the internal struggles many face.

The interview also delves into Michele's personal transformation after experiencing a significant life event and reflects on the moments that forced her to re-evaluate her priorities and take a critical look at her well-being. Through discussions about setting boundaries and the power of saying no, she highlights the importance of tuning into one's body and needs rather than sacrificing oneself for perceived obligations.

Listeners gain insights into practical steps Michelle has taken to prioritize her health, including listening to her body and establishing healthier boundaries in her personal and professional life. She discusses her impressive weight loss journey, which serves as a metaphor for her broader transformation: shedding not just physical weight but also the mental and emotional burdens she carried.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:54 A Wake-Up Call

7:38 Overcoming Challenges

13:05 The Importance of Kindness

20:00 Creating Healthy Boundaries

24:06 A Life Transformed

27:35 Tools for Change

30:32 Embracing the Journey

connect with Michele:

www.michelelocke.com

www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke

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